Parallel lines.

To the special abilities in all of us that has made us so much more aware of the differences in this existing world!

Hello friends! Today is about "chalk and cheese". Things that makes us who we are, does not always come to us like a door step amazon delivery. We need to go through or rather push ourselves through a series of situations - some in harmony while the others in distress. The point to note here is the way we deal with these special situations. Our degrees of freedom get restricted, sure! But then the peculiar properties of the system still play a really important role. I, here, do not intend to sound pep-talkish but, my point is we all behave differently and we must respect those unsaid, undefined boundaries. This is with regards to our surroundings, with different people and in different times as well. I hope one can relate to the feeling of getting irritated or annoyed with some of the actions of their loved ones. But, the some deeds done by a completely random person doesn't bother us (much/ at all). The complete opposite is also true! Here, I want to ask my audience, how often have they thought about this discrimination that they themselves  are involved into? If one doesn't realise this now, it is quite possible that the goal of understanding each other with compassion and empathy is still a mere far fetched dream. People will continue to judge and be judged. We often forget how our lives follow the geometric patterns, while mostly we don’t appreciate interference, we seldom remember not to intersect. But then, some people, emotions, and principles run on parallel lines. One must offer a unit, to receive one in return. Nothing comes free. One can’t expect people to understand them, if they don’t realise the need to express and possibly explain their thoughts to their peers. In these tough times, one will only be missed if one is ready to remember! 

My intention in this, and every other post, is to keep the focus on oneself, make changes in lifestyle, activities, behaviour, to better oneself. However, I urge my audience to keep in mind, that we all are different, and the minimum we can do is to accept the differences and move ahead in life. Take care. Kthanksbye.


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  1. UnknownSeptember 6, 2021 at 10:55 PM

    What beautiful lines. I sometimes sit and think about how our thoughts run 'parallel'.
    You really a Great thinker. I can understand and relate all these. Thanks for expressing is this clearly.

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    1. Arpana SabooSeptember 6, 2021 at 11:31 PM

      Thank you for such kind words of encouragement. Means a lot.

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  2. UnknownSeptember 6, 2021 at 10:55 PM

    are*

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